Sex Magic Spells with Sex Toys
Toys can be great additions to sex magic spells, giving us access to varied and novel sensations and pleasure possibilities. Any toy can be a part of a sex magic spell/ritual, but you can customize your toys to fit your specific spell’s intentions.
How to do Sex Magic
Set intention: choose a clear, concise, and present-tense intention. Don't use open-ended or negating language (ex. “I am happy” instead of “I am not sad”)
Create sacred space: your ritual can be as simple or ornate as you’d like. Do whatever practices you’d like for cleansing, protective, and sacred-space creation
Raise energy through pleasure: slowly and gradually raise energy through pleasure; the longer and more powerful your pleasure, the stronger your spell will be. Keep your intention in your mind (visually, verbally, or both) as you raise your energy and pleasure
Release energy through orgasm: during orgasm, visualize/speak your intention very clearly. Feel and know the intention coming true at the moment of orgasm, and release the intention to the universe/Spirit/whatever divinity you work with
Meditate, close down & ground: take a quiet moment after orgasm to express gratitude and connect with your divine, if you’d like. Once you feel the ritual is done, close down the sacred space, do your protective practices again, and ground with a snack, water, or any other grounding practices
For more info on how to start and amplify your sex magic practice, check out my Sex Magic workshop
How to do Sex Magic with Sex Toys
The power of a sex magic spell depends on the focused intensity of your pleasure, and toys are a perfect way to focus on your pleasure and create various sensations and types of pleasure. To use toys in sex magic, correspond your toy(s) with your intentions. Make sure to choose toys based on what you like; the power of sex magic is based in pleasure, so don’t use a toy unless it brings you pleasure. If you plan on working with a new toy, try it out in a non-ritual session before using it for sex magic. Any toy can be used for any sex magic ritual, but corresponding your toy(s) to your intentions can amplify the ritual, just like using corresponding herbs or crystals. Optionally, you can consecrate or energetically charge your toy before using it in your ritual. Below are some example intentions and corresponding toys. Feel free to use this as a guide, and get creative with your sex magic toys 🖤
Intention: Grounding, Safety, Stability, Security, Root Chakra
Toys:
Butt Plug: butt play stimulates the area of the root chakra, which encourages feelings of grounding, stability, and security
Prostate Massager: for folks with a prostate, a massager can be a great addition to one’s toy bag!
Impact Toy: impact play creates intense sensation for focused attention to your pleasure
Chakrubs Xaga Wand: crystal wands (especially obsidian and red jasper) are great for promoting security and grounding. Use my code GWEN10 for 10% off your purchase 🖤
Intention: Creativity, Flow, Sacral Chakra
Toys:
Suction Toy: a fun and creative alternative (or additional) sensation to vibration
Dual Vibrator: another creative addition to one’s toy bag, this toy has licking, sucking, and vibrating capability
Chakrubs Sacral Wand: orange aventurine promotes creativity, self-worth, and independence. Use my code GWEN10 for 10% off your purchase 🖤
Intention: Confidence, Power, Solar Plexus Chakra
Toys:
Magic Wand: one of the most iconic and powerful wands on the market, the Magic Wand is great for folks who are looking for a no-frills, high-powered vibe. Various attachments can be added to add different textures and even internal vibration!
Pulsating Vibrator: the Stronic Pulsating vibe offers high power with a back-and-forth vibrating motion, as opposed to traditional vibration
Intention: Self Love, Romance, Heart Healing, Heart Chakra
Toys:
Chakrubs Heart Wand: the rose quartz Heart wand is the perfect addition to a self love sex magic spell. Rose quartz encourages heart healing, self-compassion, and even healing from emotional pain and trauma. Use my code GWEN10 for 10% off your Chakrubs purchase 🖤
Breast Massager: an alternative (or addition) to crystal wands, breast massagers stimulate the heart chakra area directly. Use my code GWEN10 for 10% off your Chakrubs purchase 🖤
Nipple Pump: for nipple-based pleasure, a pump offers a suction sensation and increases blood flow and sensation to the nipples. The pum linked is great for beginners, and this set is great for folks looking for higher power.
Intention: Intuition Development, Psychic Abilities, Third Eye Chakra
Toys:
Chakrubs Amethyst Wand: amethyst is ideal for folks looking to increase intuition and psychic abilities, connecting to one’s higher self, and encouraging inner peace. Use my code GWEN10 for 10% off your Chakrubs purchase 🖤
Sensation Lube: this warming lube is a fun addition to increase sensation in whatever area you apply it to, encouraging focused attention to your pleasure and empowering your sex magic
Massage Candle: connecting to all areas of the body helps facilitate full embodiment, which helps to ground you in the present moment and empowers your sex magic. Self-massage is a great sensual and sex magic practice on its own, or in addition to other types of pleasure.
I hope this gave you some ideas for integrating toys into your sex magic spells. Curious to learn more? Check out Pleasure & Power, my nine-week course for complete sensual and spiritual embodiment.
