Sex Magic and Blood Magic: Is Period Sex Blood Magic?
Sex magic and blood magic are both immensely powerful on their own; but what if you combine them? Is it possible to have “accidentally” done a blood-sex-magic spell if you noticed red post-coitus?
The Power of the Period
Menstrual magic and mythology are found in cultures all over the world. Magic with period blood is especially potent (energetically and emotionally) in the Western world, where menstruation is still widely shamed and shunned. Many folks who menstruate find this type of magic to be empowering and deeply fulfilling.
The use of blood in magic is so powerful because blood is life force, and as your own organic material, the use of your blood in a spell binds the spellwork to you. Be cautious when you use blood magic (see safety note below for physical precautions). As with any magic, you need to respect the power you’re working with, and consider the ethical implications of your working. Blood isn’t necessary in every spell.
Magical Uses for Menstrual Blood
Waning magic: A blood magic practitioner I know refers to menstrual blood as “dead blood,” which means it’s ideally used for waning, or “lessening,” magic. Waning magic includes protection, releasing, and banishing spells.
Self-empowerment magic: Using one’s own menstrual blood can be a powerful addition to spells of self-empowerment and sovereignty. Intentions of reclaiming your power, releasing energy or that isn’t yours or isn’t serving you, and truly stepping into your power are all amplified with the use of menstrual blood.
Self-dedication magic: Conjure the image in your mind of “signing a contract in blood;” pretty serious, right? Menstrual blood can be used for “signing contracts” to yourself, literally or energetically. Whether you’re making a big promise to yourself or dedicating yourself to a goal for your wellbeing, working with menstrual blood creates binding agreements with yourself, which empowers your dedication and manifestation toward your “contract.”
How do I use Period Blood for Magic?
For health and safety reasons, I recommend using menstrual blood only in solo magic (whether it’s a sex magic ritual or not). In my opinion, engaging in blood magic with others falls in the category of “you could, but should you?” due to the health risks (and energetic risks) involved.
To collect your period blood, use a menstrual cup like the ergonomic, sterilizable Fun Cup. Wash your hands thoroughly before and after you insert and remove the cup. Make sure any materials that interact with your blood are either disposable or non-porous (medical grade silicone, glass, stainless steel, etc). There are so many ways to work magic with menstrual blood (anoint yourself, create a sigil for self love, write or paint, use it with candle magic, etc). Whatever you do, make sure you’re being safe.
So, is having sex on your period blood magic?
In summary, no. Magic is the act of raising energy in accordance with intention; if your intention isn’t there, it’s not a spell. To get very literal, the occult society Thelema defines magic as "the Science and Art of causing Change to occur in conformity with Will.” This means magic requires will, and if you’re not willing it, it won’t happen.
To offer some perspective:
It’s not a love spell every time you light a pink candle.
It’s not a manifestation ritual every time you drink herbal tea.
It’s not a sex magic ritual every time you have sex.
Although we are capable of connecting with all of these as magical energy amplifiers, they’re also capable of being mundane.
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Safety note: Blood can carry bacteria and other disease-causing pathogens, so make sure you are being safe when working with blood. I only recommend using your own menstrual blood for magic, and always being sanitary when obtaining your menstrual blood. As a general rule, use barrier methods (like condoms and dental dams) during sex to reduce the risk of STIs, and get tested for STIs regularly. Do not share or exchange blood or other body fluids with anyone unless you are fluid-bonded with them. You don’t need to use blood to work effective magic, so when in doubt, err on the side of caution. If you have any medical questions, ask a medical professional. Please be safe!
